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36 1/2 Weeks!

Wednesday, July 1st, 2009

Well, the midwife said we have officially reached the point where if labor were to begin they wouldn’t try to stop it!!  Pretty cool to know we’ve entered the home stretch…even if that home stretch could be another 4+ weeks.

I got to see the top of the baby’s head today via sonogram.  My midwife wanted to make sure the baby was still head down.  So I got a quickie view of the skull top and the suture line that runs across the top.  I didn’t get to see anything else though.  Too bad you can’t tell if the baby has hair via those things.  I want to see this little person soooo badly now.

I keep reading that the baby’s movements should be smaller now since it should be running out of room in there, but this little person still manages to make pretty awesome flops sometimes.  His/her little fanny was parading across my upper belly the other night pretty comically.  I had a bulge to the right, then the center and then back to the right.

The midwife gave orders to start walking.  Everyday we are too walk as long as I can on the track.  She said it will help get the baby moved down into position and help me once labor actually comes.   The baby hasn’t dropped yet and the midwife said it could be 2 weeks before delivery after the head is all the way engaged.  So we’re at least 2+ weeks away from any big news.

First Candidate Failed

Monday, June 29th, 2009

So we’ll not be using this first pediatrician we interviewed.  He totally started out on the wrong foot by severely criticizing my personal choice (as a totally healthy, absolutely no complications, pregnant woman)   to use a midwife versus an ob/gyn for my prenatal and labor & delivery care.  After his mini-rant about how I’m putting our baby in danger using a stand-alone midwife who is not under direct supervision of an ob/gyn, he then proceeded to chastise our choice to have the baby at a very small hospital here in our own town rather than driving 45 minutes to the nearest big hospital.  And things kind of went downhill from there.  I didn’t even make it through all the questions I’d planned to ask him. And since that interview, we’ve heard from others that he nor his practice are very good.  We’ve got lots more choices though.

Heading Out to Interview Our First Candidate for Pediatrician

Friday, June 26th, 2009

So here in a few minutes Dave and I will be interviewing our first candidate to be our baby’s pediatrician.  Now as a former librarian, I know not to judge a book by its cover.  But boy is it hard to not judge when the cover of the “book” is a bad receptionist.  I’ve got a bad thought in my head already because the receptionist at this particular doctor’s office was not exactly the most polite human being ever.  I’m going to offer leeway though because everyone has a bad day, but considering the receptionist is my first line toward communicating with the pediatrician in the future…she could be annoying after a while.

I’m mostly interested in finding out if the guy will be really supportive and helpful of my decision to breast-feed, thoughts on circumcision, parenting techniques, alternative medicine, antibiotics, immunizations, when to start solids, making our own baby food, and eventually homeschooling.   So we’ll see.  If this one doesn’t work out I’ve got another interview scheduled in early July.

Finding a pediatrician is harder work than I thought.

Cloth Diapers

Wednesday, June 17th, 2009

We were supposed to go to a cloth diapering class this past Saturday, but we found out our nephew was having a quickie birthday party that day instead.  So maybe this weekend we’ll make it.

My friend Gina had a good comment the other day about cloth diapering.  It sounds like we’ll be using cloth diapers similarly to how she used them.  There isn’t a nearby diaper service here, but we have a brand new washing machine that has all these bells & whistles, including a sanitize mode that will come in handy washing diapers.  And we are totally not going to be cloth diaper purists.  We go on way too many day trips and longer trips to fiddle with cloth diapers during those times.  We’ll be using disposables for trips, illness (me or baby) and for days when we’re expecting to be gone big chunks of the day.  So I plan to have at least a package of disposables in the appropriate size available all the time here at the house.

Now it is just a matter of figuring out which cloth diaper solution to go with and actually purchase the things.  We’ll be using disposables for the first 6 weeks so we still have a bit of time to figure this whole thing out.

34 Weeks!

Wednesday, June 17th, 2009

I had my 34th week appointment this morning and all is well.  No weight gain!  (No guilt meant for those of you who are supposed to gain weight during pregnancy…I’m overweight already and not supposed to gain at all.)  My blood pressure was 110/80 still.  And baby’s heartbeat sounds just fine and is in the head down position.

During my next appointment at 36 weeks, the midwife will do the required culture to check for the presence of Strep B and check my cervix for the first time to see where I’m at.

Tonight Dave & I are going to visit the hospital where I’m going to have the baby so we can see the rooms and just get a feel for the place generally so it isn’t strange when I need to go in for real.

Lots and Lots of Baby Related Appointments

Wednesday, June 10th, 2009

Between childbirth classes, baby care class, breastfeeding classes, cloth diapering class and “baby-wearing” class, Dave and I have just been running all over the place with baby related stuff.  We’ve also got interviews set-up with pediatricians and a car seat installation appointment.   Tonight I’m attending my first La Leche League meeting with the topic “bringing home baby and beginning breastfeeding”.

We took our baby care class last Friday evening.  Seeing all the variety of new parents was interesting.  There was a couple who looked young and might even still be attending maybe graduate level schooling who took notes feverishly.  A couple who were hyper prepared and not nearly as far a long as I am in the pregnancy.  And an older couple having a second child 13 years after their first.  And several more just normal people with normal questions.

We’ve also taken our first childbirth class; actually our first of four of those classes.  This Saturday we are going to a local store for two classes; one on cloth diapering and another on slings.   We’ve just been absolutely overwhelmed with the variety of cloth diapers available right now.   There are a zillion different options and all of them have pros & cons, it is just a matter of coming up with a configuration of pros and cons we can live with.  So we’re hopeful this class will do that for us.

Thankfully, one of our local state troopers stationed here in town is certified to install car seats so I don’t have to fret about doing that.  I just had to make an appointment with him.

We are getting close to having the baby room prepared.  We have the dresser, but we still need to transform it into a changing table as well.  The changing pad has been purchased, but we just need to make a platform, do some sanding, fix a little trim and repaint the whole thing.   It should look pretty cute when it is complete.  My cat, Bailey, has approved of and decidedly taken over the new chair in the baby’s room.  And the crib is still in a couple of pieces, but coming along.

My mother-in-law is hosting a baby shower for us on June 27th.  I don’t think she’s actually sending out invitations, just letting people know via word of mouth because she’s been pretty infirmed lately with a leg injury.  She’s chosen a nice little Italian restaurant that serves yummy food in which to host the shower.  My mom is actually scheduled to be here during that time-frame so she’ll even get to attend!

So aside from running all over the countryside lately, I’m doing pretty well.  My only real “complaint” is being just pooped.  Occasionally, the baby stretches up into my lungs or jabs my stomach making me feel slightly ill.  And I’ve got the usual pregnancy back and pelvis aches and pains, but nothing really difficult to deal with at all.

Well, I need to go prepare dinner for my dear hubbie and I so that I can attend my La Leche League meeting this evening.

Chair for the Nursery

Saturday, May 30th, 2009

Dave and I have been looking for a nice chair for the baby’s room.  One that would be comfortable enough to use for nursing and just generally sitting in.  We decided upon getting a “club chair” style chair, but the ones at the furniture stores were anywhere from $200-$1000+ for anything we even remotely liked.  So our minds turned to finding a used chair, somewhere.  Every yard sale we’ve past lately we’ve slowed to look for a chair.

This morning Dave had plans at his parent’s house so I went “garage sale-ing”.  After passing probably 15+ garage sales with mostly junk for sale, I found myself in a tangled subdivision neighborhood with several sales.  Finally, it dawned on me to ask God for a little assist.  So I said a little pray real quick that I find something, hopefully a chair, that would be useful furniture in the baby’s room at one of the sales I saw coming up in front of me.  No joke the very next sale I came across had a cream colored chair sitting in the drive-way gleaming in the sunlight.  I thought the price was surely going to be $80+ or it would be stained and gross, but I’d check.  I should trust God more…  The price said, “make an offer”, the stains were very, very limited, it looked sturdy and when I sat in it…perfection.  So I asked the owner what she was hoping to get for the chair, all the while thinking to myself that $25 would be a superb amount.  And what did she say…yup, $25!

So there you have it.  God’s chair for our baby’s room.  I might or might not try finding a slip cover for it or asking my mom to make covers for the arms and maybe the seat, but it really is ready to use even if I don’t cover it in anyway.  And it also fit perfectly into the back of the SUV!

Designing Our Baby Announcement Cards

Thursday, May 28th, 2009

Today I went to the scrapbook and rubber stamp store here in town to peruse through the baby stuff they have on hand so I could work on designing our baby announcement cards.  Knowing how I can sometimes be a procrastinator about things, I knew I needed to get a jump start on this particular project or it might be likely the baby is turning 12 before I announce his/her birth.

I’m going to make them reasonably generic, but make it so that girl or boy embellishments can be added once we know that important detail. I think I’m going to make the front a mock picture frame that I can slip a photo in.  And I will probably use a photo taken of baby a couple of days after he/she enters the world since some of those hospital photos are so absolutely awful.  Some people’s baby’s hospital photos (mine included) look like horrid DMV photos.

Looks Like I’m in the Clear

Wednesday, May 6th, 2009

I had the gestational diabetes test this morning and it looks like I’m in the clear!!!!!!!!!!!!  I had them do both a finger stick and draw blood just so I wouldn’t have to wait until Friday for results.  Thankfully, the midwife thought that was a good idea and my finger stick number was great so she doesn’t foresee much of a different story from the drawn blood work.  Yeah!

Aside from that baby is doing great.  My blood pressure is still perfect.  And all is good!  Again, another YEAH!!  I start going to the midwife every 2 weeks now until 36 weeks when I start going once a week until I deliver.

Well, it is an absolutely perfect day outside so I’m going to go sit on the porch with an ice tea for a few minutes before I get busy doing some more household stuff.

Just in Awe

Tuesday, May 5th, 2009

This afternoon I’ve been taking some of the new baby clothes out of its packaging and getting it ready for laundering.  Everything is just so cute.

Now that the baby room is painted and we’ve converted a big chunk of the room into the baby room, I’ve finally got places to put things.  We still don’t have a dresser in which to put most things, but I have closet space and shelving space to use.  I’ve got one whole shelf devoted to blankets.  I’ve got maybe 8 receiving blankets, 5 normal blankets, 2 fitted crib sheets and some water-proof pads. So I’m feeling good about my blanket supply right now.  I might want to acquire more crib sheets eventually though.

I’ve been having fun actually finally getting a chance to look closely at all the wonderful things folks have given our baby.

It is getting harder to move and breath because the baby is growing up into my rib cage and really pressing on vital organs.  I can still bend over, but it has become this awkward semi-squat move so I don’t squish baby & myself.

Last night Dave heard the baby hiccuping.  He said it sounded like a drum inside my belly.  And he got to feel a few more kicks and watch my belly poking outward randomly with baby movements.  That was pretty awesome.

Tomorrow is my glucose test day to determine if it looks like I’ve developed gestational diabetes.  I need to make a little list of things to ask the midwife tomorrow.  As we are getting further along, I’ve actually got more questions than I did at the beginning.